Friday, December 31, 2010

All About My Hair

                                                                                                            Armpit Lenght

I was inpired to start my journey on 10th February of 2009  after i had saw a hair journey video on youtube.My main goal since i decided too start my hair journey is to have thick  healthy long hair.I started off with my hair at armpit length but it was extremely thin and shedding a lot.

 The products i started my hair journey with was Aphogee.My hair adapted really well even to the strong protein treatment.But as time went on i began trying different products as well as hair supplements which also helped in my hair growth.And since then i have learned how to stretch out my relaxers from 12 weeks too 6 months.Overall its not a walk in the park but its all worth it.I haven't really had any set backs.But my main goal on this journey is too have thick healthy long hair.And keeping it all simple while doing it.The pictures below are too show my progress as time went on.I don't know my hair type as yet.Update i made my hair goal and my new goal is too focus on getting healthy thick hair.


1 Year and 10 Months Length Comparison

Ponytail Comparison
Edited By:Onika

Friday, December 24, 2010

Friday, December 17, 2010

Thoughts And Word of The Day

Finest and Bravest..

Pray for the heroes
who lost their lives
in the terrorist attacks
on September 11.

There are too many
of them to name,
but each one surely
has a special place
beside God in heaven.

Hundreds of New York's
finest and bravest were lost--
paramedics, firefighters,
and police officers
who rushed to the scene to
save others.

September, 11 was a
dark day of tragedy,
but these heroes taught us
a lesson about compassion
and love for humanity,
that we'll never forget.

"Finest and Bravest," written and designed by Bobette Bryan, 2001

Sunday, December 12, 2010

A Semi Hair Length Check(32 Weeks Post.)

This is a semi length check of my hair am currently 32 weeks post relaxer.I washed my hair on friday and allowed it too air-dry on saturday i was going too flatiron my  new growth but i was a little reoccupied because my father-in-laws birthday was on the same day so his wife decided too throw him a party.So today i got extremely late because i went too bed until 5:55am from the nigh before and i was so happy because there wasn't anything for me too do (as in chores Lol) so i toke a shower and what not then sprayed my hair with my motions heat protector along with FX special effects flatiron spray and began doing my hair in large sections.Too add a little shine i applied coconut oil after i was done.The a before pic and after pic of my hair is below.

This is From Friday      

This is after i flatiron today(Sunday)
    My ends need too be trim(or better yet cut) and i will be doing that after i do my texlax.

This picture show my length check.The W is for waist length while the H if for hip length

This is photo of my new-growth after i did my flatiron.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Thoughts And Word of The Day

A Perfect Day...

I want you to be happy
so I'm sending you this perfect day,
the kind of day in which everything goes right
and only good news comes your way.
You'll have nothing to worry about,
no reason to gripe or groan,
because no bill collectors
will harass you on the phone;
And every meal you have will
taste absolutely great,
and the kids will happily eat
every morsel on their plate.
You'll manage to find some time alone,
to kick back and unwind,
and you'll drift away to pleasant dreams
of the most romantic kind.
And no one who crosses your path
will give you a reason to fuss or fret.
If they do a fragrant bubble bath
will let you forget.
The years will roll back,
eased by thoughts of a dear friend
who will make you feel like a child again,
caught up in the world of pretend.
And when night falls at last,
and you close your eyes to sleep,
your dreams will be full of hope
that tomorrow you'll keep.

"A Perfect Day," written and designed by Bobette Bryan, 2000.

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Thoughts And Word of The Day

End of the Day Prayer...


At the end of the day,
let me not dwell on my failures
or recount my disappointments.
Let my heart not
be heavy
over the day's frustrations,
the cold voices,
and minor vexations.
Remind me that there's
so much more to life
than worry, pain
and trivial strife.
Let me not be blind
to each tiny pleasure.
Remind me that each little blessing
is something to treasure.
Let me hear children's laughter,
the voice of a dear friend;
and let the warm memories
revive me...
when a long day ends.
And wrap me tight in your arms,
once my worries depart;
never let me forget your love
lest I forget my heart.

"End of the Day Prayer," written and designed by Bobette Bryan, 2001

Wednesday, December 1, 2010


Thanks you god for giving me another wonderful year.I am thankful for this even with the good and the bad the year has brought me.I pray and live too see many more too come.

Small Quote

“Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had, and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.”

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Thoughts & Words Of The Day


God will be with you today.
As you open your eyes to a new day,
he'll light up the sky with sunshine
to remind you how much
he loves you.
He'll be your strength through every hour.
He'll bring you many warm smiles
and unexpected pleasures throughout the day.
His love will keep you warm
and shelter you from all harm.

God will be with you tonight.
As you close your weary eyes in sleep,
he'll light up the sky with stars
to remind you that he's
always there for you.
He'll watch over you as you sleep,
touching your soul with a peace
that could only come from heaven,
and filling your dreams with a spark of hope
that will remain with you when you awake.

God will be with you tomorrow.
He'll be with you always.
And every day, he'll remind you,
in many different ways,
that he's your eternal light.

Friday, October 15, 2010

Thoughts & Words Of The Day

I learned that God sends friends when
we need them the most and every friend
has a special purpose in our lives.

I learned that we often find
new friends in unexpected places.

I learned that despite the distance
between us, a real friendship grows
across the miles.

I learned that though we sometimes
expect someone to kick us down,
a true friend helps us stand back up.

I learned that we should not wait to
express our appreciation for our friends--
if we do, it will be too late.

I learned that we should be open to a
friend's view as two people can look at the
same thing and see something different.

I learned that we should not judge
our friends but respect their
way of life even if we disagree with it.

I learned that we should not only
take the time to talk to our friends,
but we should also listen and try
to understand.
If we can't understand,
we should accept.

I learned that our friends should
always take something good away with
them each time they cross our path.

I learned that friends sometimes
hurt us unintentionally, but we
should forget and forgive.

I learned that friends change
over time and that such change should
be welcomed as it's necessary for growth.

I learned that friends sometimes need
time and space, and we should
be thoughtful and understanding
of their needs.

I learned that you should treat a friend
kindly today, for the people we love the most
are often taken away from us too soon.

I learned that friendship is a candle
that lights our way, and though
it flickers against the
winds of time, distance, and change,
its beauty endures
and shines forever in our hearts.

Bobette Bryan ecard greeting Lessons of Friendship.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Thougths & Words Of The Day

You Have the Right...

You have the right to be who you want to be, to live your life how you wish to live it.

You have the right to your opinion--to your likes and dislikes. You don't have to like or approve of something just because someone else does.

You have the right to refrain from doing something that you feel is wrong, injurious, or that goes against your beliefs.

You have the right to be respected for your decisions. Some people may not understand the choices you've made or what it's like to walk in your path, but you should have confidence in knowing that you made the right decision anyway.

You have the right to privacy, and what you tell someone in confidence should never be betrayed.

You have the right to express your opinions and feelings; however, you must always consider other people's feelings in doing so.

You have the right to feel confident about your work, skills, talent and in being yourself.

You have the right to pursue your dreams.

You have the right to enjoy the time spent with your friends and family.

You have the right to be happy and to greet each new day with hope.

"You Have the Right," written and designed by Bobette Bryan, 2001

Friday, October 1, 2010

Thougths And Words Of the Day

Expect A Rainbow...

Expect a rainbow,
and you'll find it eventually.
Your dreams will come true
as long as you believe they will.

Expect a rainbow--
believe in the impossible,
otherwise you may miss
opportunity when it
knocks on your door.

Expect a rainbow,
and escape to dreams.
If you can touch your dreams
with your eyes shut,
then you can stay focused
on your goal with your eyes open.

Expect a rainbow;
look beyond the storm for
the beauty that follows
the darkness.

Expect a rainbow;
have faith in yourself
above all things.
If you believe in yourself,
then others will believe in
you too.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Thougths & Words OF the Day

30 Things Every Woman Should Have and Should Know - MAYA ANGELOU

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to...


something perfect to wear if the employer,or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .. a youth she's content to leave behind....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..... a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .... one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .... a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal,that will make her guests feel honored...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ... a feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD to quit a job, break up with a lover,and confront a friend without;ruining the friendship...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents.

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD to live alone... even if she doesn't like it..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .whom she can trust, whom she can't,and why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...where to it to her best friend's kitchen table... or a charming inn in the woods... when her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...what she can and can't accomplish in a day...a month...and a year..

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Thoughts And Words Of the Day

Washington Irving quotes

“A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.”

“There is in every true woman's heart, a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity.”

Friday, July 9, 2010

Thoughts and Words Of the Day

"I believe everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right . You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself...and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together" - Marilyn Monroe

~Most people will never know anything beyond what they see with their own two eyes~

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Thoughts and Words Of the Day

To Be Great...

You don't have to be
a great artist,
a great politician,
a great philosopher,
historian, athlete,
or scientist
in order to be great.
You can be great
in your kindness,
and the joy and comfort
you offer others.
You can be great
through the way
you raise your child,
and through your
love and devotion to
your significant other.
You can be great by
putting in an honest
day's work,
or by the way you've
made a house
a home for your family.
You can be great in
your desire to overcome
any obstacle in order
to make something
out of your life.
You can be great
by the way you help
your neighbors.
You can be great in
your love for God
and country.

It's not your job, ability,
status, or position in life
that makes you great,
but the love, loyalty, and
dedication in your heart.
And these are the very qualities
that bind all of humanity
to each other and
to God.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Thoughts and words Of The Day

"My Love"

Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh ooh oh oh huh huh
Oh ooh oh oh huh huh
Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh ooh oh oh huh huh
Oh ooh oh oh huh huh

[verse I]
I ride like a soldier
Put nothing before ya
Anything you ask
I'll be right there to do it
But if I react you tell me to relax
Too late to take it back
Cause boy you put me through it

[pre hook]
This circular motion is all we do
I'm so sick of going back and forth with you
You should have been happy to have me
You said you wanted to have some kids build a family
(Now I)
Wish it wasn't true
It's killing me to do
What I gotta do
The problem here is you
Ain't nobody new not even my crew
Could take the place of you
The problem here is you

Cause if you only knew what I felt for you
You would have held on tighter
Fought a little harder
Been a little smarter and now you're gonna miss my love
And one day soon you'll see
You'll reach out for me
Boy you had a keeper
Didn't know how to treat her
Should have felt a little deeper and now you're gonna miss my love

[verse II]
Kick it with ya friends (go)
Go out with other chicks (go)
Be all up in the mix (go)
You got the right to do it
You wanna be a pimp
Be treated like a prince
Go 'head and click the switch
Cause now you got ya crown back

[pre hook]
This circular motion is all we do
I'm so sick of going back and forth with you
You should have been happy to have me
You said you wanted to have some kids build a family
(now I)
Wish it wasn't true
It's killing me to do
What I gotta do
The problem here is you
Ain't nobody new not even my crew
Could take the place of you
The problem here is you

Cause if you only knew what I felt for you
You would have held on tighter
Fought a little harder
Been a little smarter and now you're gonna miss my love
And one day soon you'll see
You'll reach out for me
Boy you had a keeper
Didn't know how to treat her
Should have felt a little deeper and now you're gonna miss my love

My hugs (and)
My kisses
You know you're gonna miss it
And while you're tripping on the love we could have had
I'm moving on
I got to (and)
Ain't no looking back

Cause if you only knew what I felt for you
You would have held on tighter
Fought a little harder
Been a little smarter and now you're gonna miss my love
And one day soon you'll see
You'll reach out for me
Boy you had a keeper
Didn't know how to treat her
Should have felt a little deeper and now you're gonna miss my love
Boy you had a keeper, didn't know how to treat her
Should have felt a little deeper and now you're gonna miss my love

Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh ooh oh oh huh huh
Oh ooh oh oh huh huh
Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh ooh oh oh huh huh
Oh ooh oh oh huh huh

See boy
You had a keeper
But you didn't know
How to treat her

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Thoughts and words Of The Day

Quotes on Positive Thinking

Remez Sasson Quotes

The difference between can and cannot are only three letters. Three letters that determine your life's direction.

Being positive or negative are habits of thoughts that have a very strong influence on life.

Positive and negative are directions. Which direction do you choose?

Positive thinking is expecting, talking and visualizing with certainty what you want to achieve, as an accomplished fact.

Riches, mediocrity and poverty begin in the mind.

Reality is the mirror of your thoughts. Choose well what you put in front of the mirror.

The mind is the decisive factor in your life, but who decides for the mind?

A positive attitude brings strength, energy and initiative.

To think negatively is like taking a weakening drug.

Positive thoughts are not enough. There have to be positive feelings and positive actions.

When you say, "I can't" and expect the worst, you become weak and unhappy.

When you say "I can", and expect success, you fill yourself with confidence and happiness.

Being resolute, decisive and courageous in small matters and in big ones is being positive.

You can close the windows and darken your room, and you can open the windows and let light in. It is a matter of choice. Your mind is your room. Do you darken it or do you fill it with light?

Positive thinking and negative thinking are attitudes. They are points of view, and show the way people handle their affairs.

Suppose you stand at a crossroads, one way leads to a desert and the other one to lush meadows, which way do you choose?

Clear thoughts produce clear results.

Positive thinking evokes more energy, more initiative and more happiness.

Train your mind to think in terms of 'possible' and 'can be done'.

When you have control over your thoughts, you have control over your life.

Happy thoughts attract happy people into your life.

Happy thoughts fill your life with happiness.

When you change your habitual thoughts, it is like changing the direction of a train.

Affirm the positive, visualize the positive and expect the positive, and your life will change accordingly.

When there are difficulties and you feel down, this is the time to visualize, think and expect the positive.

Do not let circumstances influence your thoughts and moods. By rising over them mentally, you will eventually rise over them materially.

Fill your mind with light, happiness, hope, feelings of security and strength, and soon your life will reflect these qualities.

Reading inspiring quotes uplifts the mind.

Repeating inspiring quotes during the day, helps to better cope with every situation that arises.

The power of positive thinking is like a car with a powerful engine that can take you to the summit of a mountain.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Thougths & Notes Of The Day.LOL

  • When you love someone deeply they become your life.

  • True Beauty comes from with in.

  • Love wants to give lust wants to take.

  • Love is unselfish lust is selfish.

  • Making love is a form of workship.

  • A friend you buy with presents will be bougth from you.

  • Fear slows down the thing process.

  • Life is a series of problems.Do we complain about them or slove them.

  • Kind actions begins with kind thougths

  • The one worse thing than a vacant mind is one filled with spiteful thougths.

  • Becareful of your thougths as they maybe come actions.

  • one realize the importances of time only when there is little of it left.

  • The only person who saves time is the one who spends it wisley.

  • Anger makes your mouth work faster than your mind.

  • By yeilding to temptation one may lose a minute of what it took a life time to gain.

  • Don't sit back and take what comes go after what you want.

  • Be strong enough to control anger don't let it control you.

  • Wisdom is knowning when to speak your mind and when to mind your speech.

  • Tenderness and Kindness are not signs of weakness but signs of being human.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Funny Thougths and Words Of the Day

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her... :DDDDD

Friday, April 2, 2010

Thougths And Words of The Day

"U Saved Me"

I was riding in my car one day
In the express lane rollin on the freeway
And suddenly the phone rings then I
Reached down beside me then i look
On the floor felt on the backseat
See I was drinking while I was driving
Never thinking bout what I was doing
I turned around and before i knew it
Here comes this truck now

Doctor said don't think he gonna make it
Family said make the funeral arrangements
Unplug the machine he's gone now
Then told my wife to be strong now
Then a small voice said told me
If you promise to stop drinking
I surrendered on that day
Now for ten years i've been straight

You saved me [4x]
Gave me a second chance
You saved me [3x]
You saved me

Now i've been sitting in this chair
Waiting on the phone to ring
Praying up to God that someone will call
Me with a job opening
Cause it's been so hard for me
Month to month struggling to eat
But still there was no answer
I stop believing in his word and
Got so mad at him and
When somebody said God's good
I just laugh at 'em

But in the nick of time his blessing
Rain on me
By his grace the phone ring
A lady said were hiring and
That's when I knew

You saved me [4x]

Now i was 18 out there on the block
Selling drugs
With a gun at my waist
And for people I had no love
See the streets was my home
Family and friends were all gone
Had no one to trust
And deep inside i was all alone
And a deal went bad one day
And it was enough to pause me
I was shot 4 times and before i
Knew it I was on my knees

Blood pushin out my body
My heart's beating faster don't know what i'm gonna do
I don't think i'm gonna last then
I begain to flash back on the things
I done in my past
Then I heard a small voice that said
I'll give you peace if you believe
I accepted Christ that day
Halilujah now i'm free

You saved me [4x]

I was in the aisle of the grocery store
With a pain in my chest and I'm wondering
Where did it come from (I got tested)
And the results came back
And the doctor said i'm sorry but u got cancer
I could not beleive it so
I call my mama to calm my nerves

(mama) she got down on her knees
(mama) she said a prayer for me
(mama) just keep on thanking Jesus
(mama) he'll give you what you need
(thank you Jesus)
Now that was five years ago
I don't have that pain no more
Doc said you can go home
Cause all your cancer's gone

You saved me [4x]

You saved me (said you saved me)
You saved me (but you saved me)
You saved me saaaved me
Gave me a second chance (second chance)
Halilujah saved me
Saved me saved me
Wooooooh You saved me

You gave me it was by grace You saved me
I'm so thankful that You looked down on me
Saw me standing there
I was at the end of my rope no where to go
And you gave me

No where to go (and you saved me)
I was down and out 2
I was doing drugs 2
I was running the streets 2
Never felt love
I was wilding out
You saved me
You stepped in ooh save me

You saved me

Sunday, March 21, 2010

THougths & Words Of The Day

Everything is based on mind, is led by mind, is fashioned by mind. If you speak and act with a polluted mind, suffering will follow you, as the wheels of the oxcart follow the footsteps of the ox. Everything is based on mind, is led by mind, is fashioned by mind. If you speak and act with a pure mind, happiness will follow you, as a shadow clings to a form.

To understand reality is not the same as to know about outward events. It is to perceive the essential nature of things. The best-informed man is not necessarily the wisest. Indeed there is a danger that precisely in the multiplicity of his knowledge he will lose sight of what is essential. But on the other hand, knowledge of an apparently trivial detail quite often makes it possible to see into the depth of things. And so the wise man will seek to acquire the best possible knowledge about events, but always without becoming dependent upon this knowledge. To recognize the significant in the factual is wisdom.
No question is so difficult to answer as that to which the answer is obvious

Monday, March 15, 2010

Thougths And Words Of The Day

Like You'll Never See Me Again Lyrics

If I had no more time
No more time left to be here
Would you cherish what we had?
Was it everything that you were looking for?
If I couldn't feel your touch
And no longer were you with me
I'd be wishing you were here
To be everything that I'd be looking for
I don't wanna forget the present is a gift
And I don't wanna take for granted the time you may have here with me
'Cause Lord only knows another day is not really guaranteed

So every time you hold me
Hold me like this is the last time
Every time you kiss me
Kiss me like you'll never see me again
Every time you touch me
Touch me like this is the last time
Promise that you'll love me
Love me like you'll never see me again

Oh Oh Oh

How many really know what love is?
Millions never will
Do you know until you lose it
That it's everything that we are looking for
When I wake up in the morning
You're beside me
I'm so thankful that I found
Everything that I been looking for

I don't wanna forget the present is a gift
And I don't wanna take for granted the time you may have here with me
'Cause Lord only knows another day is not really guaranteed

So everytime you hold me
Hold me like this is the last time
Every time you kiss me
Kiss me like you'll never see me again
(can you do that for me baby)
Every time you touch me
(see we don't really know)
Touch me like this is the last time
(see everyday we never know)
Promise that you'll love me
(I want you to promise me)
Love me like you'll never see me again
(like you'll never see me again)

Oh oh oh oh oh

Friday, March 5, 2010

Thougths And Words Of The Day

Blessed are they who have the gift of making friends, for it is one of God's greatest gifts.It involves many things, but above all the power of going out of one's self and appreciating what is noble and loving in another.
Friendship can weather most things and thrive in thin soil - but it needs a little mulch of letters and phone calls and small silly presents every so often - just to save it from drying out completely.
Under the magnetism of friendship the modest man becomes bold; the shy, confident; the lazy, active; and the impetuous, prudent and peaceful.

Friday, February 26, 2010

Thougths and words Of the Day

I love This Song So i Thougth This Would Be a Good Post.

Beyonce Knowles : Flaws & All

I'm a train wreck in the morning
I'm a bitch in the afternoon
Every now and then without warning
I can be really mean towards you

I'm a puzzle yes indeed
Ever complex in every way
And all the pieces aren't even in the box
And yet you see the picture clear as day

I don't know why you love me
And that's why I love you
You catch me when I fall
Accept me, flaws and all
And that's why I love you
And that's why I love you
And that's why I love

I neglect you when I'm working
When I need attention I tend to nag
I'm a host of imperfection
And you see past all that

I'm a peasant by some standards
But in your eyes I'm a queen
You see potential in all my flaws
And that's exactly what I mean

I don't know why you love me
And that's why I love you
You catch me when I fall
Accept me, flaws and all
And that's why I love you
And that's why I love you
And that's why I love you

Don't know why you love me
And that's why I love you
Catch me when I fall
Accept me flaws and all
And that's why I love you
And that's why I love you
And that's why I love you
You, you, you

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Thougths and Words Of the Day

All I Want...

Some people have
such big dreams,
but all I want
is to love you,
to wake up beside you
each morning,
to feel the warmth
of your hand in mine,
to share each moment,
good and bad, with you,
to lose myself
in your loving arms.
Some people want
so much out of life,
but all I want
is to share
everything with you,
for us to talk long
into the night,
to dream together,
and experience
all of the little
things together
that makes life
worth living.
Yes, I have a
big dream after all.
And I want so
many things.
I want to spend the
rest of my life
with you.
And I want to
give you my love,
and to make our home
a place where
you always feel
warm and welcome,
and for us to have
a relationship in which
we accept each other
for who we are
and always find a
sweet dream in
each other's arms.
All I want is
for us to love
each other for the
rest of our lives.
And I do believe
that dreams can
come true.

Friday, February 19, 2010

Thougths And Words Of The Day

You and God...

People are often unreasonable,
irrational, and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse
you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some
unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere
people may deceive you;
Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating
others could destroy overnight;
Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness,
some may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today,
will often be forgotten.
Do good anyway.

Give the best you have,
and it may never be enough;
Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis,
it is between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway

Monday, February 15, 2010

Thougths and words Of The Day

Alphabet of Happiness...

Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.

B--Break Away
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.

Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.

Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.

Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.

Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.

Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.

Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.

Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.

Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.

Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.

Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.

Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.

Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.

Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.

Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

The Sunscreen Song.Love Love It

Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of ?9...Wear sunscreen

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years youll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you cant grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked...Youre not as fat as you imagine.

Dont worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing everyday that scares you


Dont be reckless with other peoples hearts, dont put up with people who are reckless with yours.


Dont waste your time on jealousy; sometimes youre ahead, sometimes youre behind...the race is long, and in the end its only with yourself.

Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.


Dont feel guilty if you dont know what to do with your life...the most interesting people I know didnt know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still dont.

Get plenty of calcium

Be kind to your knees, youll miss them when theyre gone.

Maybe youll marry, maybe you wont, maybe youll have children, maybe you wont, maybe youll divorce at 40, maybe youll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary...what ever you do, dont congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either - your choices are half chance, so are everybody elses.

Enjoy your body, use it every way you can...dont be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, its the greatest instrument youll ever own.

Dance...even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.

Read the directions, even if you dont follow them.

Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

49 second break in speech -- Quindon singing

Get to know your parents, youll never know when theyll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings; they are the best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography in lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.


Accept certain inalienable truths, price will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old, and when you do youll fantasize that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Dont expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.

Dont mess too much with your hair, or by the time its 40, it will look 85.

Be careful who advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than its worth.

But trust me on the sunscreen...

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Thougths and Words Of The Day

Because you're a beautiful person,

I wanted to send something beautiful to you.

Because you always fill my world

with laughter and happiness,

I wanted to send something bright to you.

Because our friendship is true,

I wanted to send some pink roses to you.

It's not much,

but I hope this greeting will do.

In my own special way,

I just wanted to let you know that

you're in my thoughts today,

and I'm sending some good

wishes your way.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Thougths and words of the day

If a wise owl could speak,it would say:

Let go of the thingsthat you can't change.

It is never too late to begin again.

The healer of hatred is love,and the cure for despair is hope.

Peace speaks with apurer heart than animosity.

Forgiveness weighs lessthan resentment.

True happiness only comesthrough sharing.

Compassion is one of ourgreatest virtues.

The more we give, the greaterthe blessings we receive.

Our greatest success isthe wisdom we earn,but our greatest wealthis the love in our hearts.

"Words of a Wise Owl" written and designed by Bobette Bryan

Monday, January 11, 2010

Thougths and Words Of the Day

Believe In You...

Some people won't believe in you;
they won't encourage you
to follow your dreams,
but you must always believe in you,
no matter how long the journey
ahead seems.

Some people will be jealous of you;
their words will be sharp and unkind,
but you must close your ears
to such words,
and never allow them to change
your direction or your mind.

I'll always believe in you
and encourage you
to follow your dreams,
and I'll try my best to show you
that the road is never
as long as it seems.

I'll always cheer for you;
my words will be warm and kind,
because I truly treasure you.
You own a part of my heart,
and you're always on my mind.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Thougths And Words Of The Day

A champion is someone who gets up,even when he can't.

Somewhere there's someone who dreams of your smile,and finds in your presence that life is worth while.So when you are lonely, remember it's trueSomebody somewhere is thinking of you.

As you travel through life,your dreams will guide you,determination will get you there,and love will provide the greatest scenery of all.

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